...Belatedly I realize it might be a better idea to discuss this in private. There are ways to do it over the Network that are more secure, but I haven't got the knack yet; never was a parapsychic.

TL;DR for the network is that you work differently than Changelings from home. The Arcana work differently from youkai and the fae from home. Assuming a 1-1 correspondence is dangerous even if the comparison is apt.